Yea..I don't usually get those butterflies. I usually meet a guy at a bar and think, this was great talking to you but I feel like those people over there are having a better conversation than the one that we are having. So being as ADD as I am, I completely loose focus say "Oh? yea" every now and then, maybe even throw in a giggle here and there and wait for just the right moment for me to interject in the conversation the the two people are having next to me...
Usually guys don't call you out for that sort of thing and the people I interrupt tend to enjoy a new conversation booster considering I'll probably get bored with that conversation soon and do exactly the same thing I did to the last guy to them within 5 mins.
It wasn't until recently that I was called out for this. And who would have thunk it...what I thought was just disinterest in having a long conversation is an actual thing...
Usually guys don't call you out for that sort of thing and the people I interrupt tend to enjoy a new conversation booster considering I'll probably get bored with that conversation soon and do exactly the same thing I did to the last guy to them within 5 mins.
It wasn't until recently that I was called out for this. And who would have thunk it...what I thought was just disinterest in having a long conversation is an actual thing...
FOMO:Fear Of Missing Out
It was just another innocent night out at the bar this guy and I start talking-he was tall dark and handsome everything most girls would want and then it happened he told me his name...Gill
It was just another innocent night out at the bar this guy and I start talking-he was tall dark and handsome everything most girls would want and then it happened he told me his name...Gill
Gill just sounds like an old geezer that wears suspenders and has that weird snort sniffle laugh. not to mention that is not a name...it is what fish breath out of. I wouldn't name a child nostril, would you.
Well any way, my attention span began to wither and the people next to me started talking about shark week (I mean how could you not want to jump in there). That was it...I was hooked on their conversation. I started to turn and I'm sure said something brilliant and very in-lighting like "Did you know, sharks have the most powerful jaws on the planet!" when Gill grabbed my hand and said, "You are such a FOMO!!"
What do you know, Gill got my attention again. He explained that I had the fear of missing out. And he was right I never want to miss a good conversation.
Well any way, my attention span began to wither and the people next to me started talking about shark week (I mean how could you not want to jump in there). That was it...I was hooked on their conversation. I started to turn and I'm sure said something brilliant and very in-lighting like "Did you know, sharks have the most powerful jaws on the planet!" when Gill grabbed my hand and said, "You are such a FOMO!!"
What do you know, Gill got my attention again. He explained that I had the fear of missing out. And he was right I never want to miss a good conversation.
And that's when I knew...that fish nostril might have been that one person that did completely understand me. Too bad I haven't seen him again since that night. Guess there was a better conversation out there.
well kids that's that, I am a FOMO on the reg.
well kids that's that, I am a FOMO on the reg.
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